Example of abuse from Scam Rinpoche

A few days ago, Scam Rinpoche posted this incredibly long rant on his Facebook page.

Funny how he’s posting this on his Facebook now, when he’s at least posted the exact same abusive rant on his blog No more excuses please back in May 2012.
So when you run out of actual scholarly content to plagiarize from people you enjoy to openly harass, you simply recycle old abusive rants you’ve been hurling at students for at least the past 4 years?

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This rant is way too long for us to put our readers through reading, so we’ve taken the liberty to condense it to how we read it by simply deleting half of the original unnecessary content.
IT SCREAMS EMOTIONAL ABUSE…

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Dear (Name I shall keep confidential on my blog to make myself look good but all the people in my organization already knows who you are because I’ve spent hours bitching about you to them already),

If you want out, you know life and the meaningless drudgery of it you will be going back to. You know your end result like many towards the end of your life will be meaningless death.

but if you are still attached to your old life of sleep, deceptive freedom, friends, conveniences, easy life, socializing et al, then you will not perform well here or anywhere.

Got you where? Resulted in what? What have you achieved? Whatever you are failing in Kultchara is what you were failing in before you came to Kultchara.

What your parents didn’t teach you, is left to me to teach you.

Whatever insecurities and failures you feel or self-hatred you feel before Kultchara you brought into Kultchara and into my world and you leave it to me to deal with.

you are a bad communications person

you are not a hard worker

you like to cover mistakes

you like the night life, easy life, fun life and convenient life

Accommodating you is not the reason you came to dharma. It’s the opposite in fact.

you are late, undisciplined, not on time, always give excuses and always do your work sloppily

again and again and again with your myriad deliciously worded apologies.

your mind goes up and down and up and down like a see-saw, it is not Kultchara who made you this way. You came this way.

In fact in your new environment you will see-saw worse having experienced the blessings of Kultchara and our goals.

you are lazy, impatient and want the easy way out. When you don’t get that, you get sad, depressed, question why you are here. But that is what you have been doing your whole life.

You reaffirm your failure of before entering Kultchara. Whatever you did not achieve before you entered Kultchara, you are leaving it to me and those around you to pick up your pieces daily and ‘retrain’ you to achieve… think….

You can cause those around you to have doubts, be depressed, be demotivated, not perform well and when you finally ‘bounce’ back from your current down episode, the people around you are down again… Then they drag others down. Then when they come up, you are in your endless cycle of down again. So it is a chain reaction…

you have been a person without goals

I receive hundreds of apologies over the years, very few move me or make me believe. I fight being cynical all the time.

you are selfish.

My example is all the people around me. They have nothing of worth and value they can take at death yet they live as if there is no death. Silly self deception. Silly selfishness hidden behind depressions, down time and feeling like we can’t do it.

Apologies are the first step but it does not purchase the respect you lost and the loss of confidence and deep pain, hurt and disappointments you have created. Apologies do not mend or make up for all the resources you have caused to be wasted. The single most important resource we have is the friendship/love and support we have in Kultchara from those around us. This love and support will NEVER BE FOUND ANYWHERE ELSE.

Apology letters sometimes make me angry. Because you can’t rob someone and then it’s ok with just a letter. How can someone consistently do harm, not do their work well, not do their job well, burden others, make others disappointed, damage others and then it’s forgotten with a letter. People who do not do their work well do not deserve to be here by right. They are here because we have compassion and mercy.

your karma is ruthless. Karma is unbiased. What you have done, when it fruitions, will make you lose the most precious things you have. No words, apologies and delicious explanations will help you.

If you don’t buck up and constantly burden others, it’s not a matter of forgiveness, it’s that the work still has to get on. It still has to complete.

BOTTOM LINE-

We all have:

anger

low self esteem

fear

perhaps bad upbringing

disappointments

hurt

pain

feeling sorry for ourselves

hiding

wanting ‘easy’ life whatever that really means

tragedies

failures

laziness

attachments, etc etc etc etc and endless variations of the above and more etc…

BUT THE KEY IS:

If you keep failing, my love and care for you will never cease, but will you have the karma to keep the most precious thing in your life?

Scam Rinpoche – The Emotionally Manipulative and Abusive

This is how a supposed “Enlightened master” teaches his students – by telling them that they are a worthless burden to their organization and society as a whole and that they would have no chance of success outside the organization should they ever choose to leave.
All this because the student choose to sleep, socialize with friends, occasionally did not meet deadlines and… be human and have an actual life!

We here at Exposingkultchara really hope that an end to all forms of abuse carried out by Scam Rinpoche and Kultchara would come soon and pray for all those still trapped and suffering in the cult.

Stay brave and know that you can leave and life is beautifully meaningful outside Kultchara.

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5 Comments Add yours

  1. Phng Wee Liang says:

    Since we are on the topic of abuse. I have another story to share.

    I once met a guy by the name of justin ripley when i was in kechara, perfect guy. Very polite, nice and caring. He was carrying out the duty of cooking for the fat slob and some IT work mainly apart from the other frivolous duties instructed by fat slob. Poor justin was so dedicated to this fat slob and of course, the fat exploited and abused justin. Justin had to cook 5 meals a day where each meal consisted of 5 different dishes. Most of the food of course was thrown away. Pls bare in mind, kechara operates a soup kitchen, isnt it unbelievably dumb? Anyhow, after cooking 5 meals a day round the clock. Justin had to accomplish his IT duties in the day while fat slob meditates, which in actual fact, i think he is just sleeping. But justin never got any sleep because the night before, justin had to listen to fat slob’s dharma talk. I have heard his dharma talks before, its basically cock and bull stories about how great he is. So, he stops his cock talking in the wee hours of the early morning and he goes meditate on how to sleep when justin has 2 hours of sleep and wakes up to accomplish his duties as a good student. Out of love for his guru. This went on for as long as i knew justin. I was there for about 2 years before i had enough of his bullshit. Soon after, they moved into a bangalow with a swimming pool. The bangalow is about 10,000 sq ft built up, but fat slob’s two little schnauzers didnt have enough space to run around, not enough exercise (maybe its because the two dogs go for walks in a prem you numbskull). So fat slob decided to fill up and cover to pool so the two dogs has an additional 150 sq ft to run around over the 10000 sq ft. And guess what, to save cost, justin had to fill up the pool with sand. On top of all the duties and 2 hours of sleep, justin had to ‘great’ honour of filling up the pool so the dogs can exercise on the 150 sq ft and continue going for walks in a prem. I didnt finish my education and still think he doesnt make any forking sense. Anyways, back to justin…. soon after, i heard justin had passed. It was a shock. Justin was only on his late thirties. Some of the other students were very unhappy. I heard from some students that justin passed out while trying to fill up the pool. He was then rushed to the hospital. Half way through the journey, fat slob calls back the ride. Half way. Fat slob wanted to say a prayer and blow onto justin. So the ride returned and fat slob did his show. Justin passed in the car on his return trip to the hospital. You see, fat slob is so forking selfish and opportunistic. He asked for the ride to return so he can blow his bad breath in the event justin recovers, its all due to his powerful bad breath. But if justin doesnt, his karma shifted and he will return to kechara in his next life. What kinda sick fork does shit like that?!?!?! He jeopardised his students life for his own benefit. A benefit that was in my view miniscule. He risked a life so he could look good or powerful. Fat slob shouldnt worry about others trying to hurt or kill him. He should worry bout himself hurting or killing others. Sick fork!!!!

    It has been years since your passing justin. This story is dedicated to you. May you return and have the dharma blossom in you. Much love.

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  2. Phng Wee Liang says:

    Since being in contact with kechara and scam rinpoche, nothing has gone well for my family. In fact, nothing has gone well for any of the families that has contact with kechara. Its very sad that a man can put on robes and hurt so many people. Buddhism is about making people better, lifting them of their weaknesses. Not exploiting it. Scam rinpoche likes to destroy a person physically, mentally and socially so you will be completely reliant on him. That is a sign of a weak and cowardly man. I of all people hope scam rinpoche and kechara will seize operations soon. Keep up the good work exposing kultchara. It has been a good and accurate read. Tq.

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  3. noosnomis says:

    Stumbled upon ur blog a couple of days ago. Really enjoyed the expose. I had an indirect brush with the Kechara group many years back and they gave me the creeps. My friends and I have been calling their fat lama the patron saint of the greedy and self-centered Malaysian Chinese capitalist class. It’s so obvious their altruism is a sham and all they r really interested is, is a kind of showy prestige. The emotional abuses aside, I always found the teachings to be terribly superstitious. It’s as if it’s a breeding grounds for sheeps!

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    1. mahakala says:

      Thank you for reading and liking our blog. We’re very happy that you and your friends are smart enough to not fall into the scam trap set up by this manipulative cult. Yes, sheep is a good analogy, but maybe zombies are even better! LOL

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  4. Disgusted wtih Tsem Tulku AKA Burcha Bugayeff says:

    “love and support will NEVER BE FOUND ANYWHERE ELSE.”

    You can’t go any lower than brainwashing people into thinking they will never find love or support anywhere else.

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